Destiny and Happiness

"You should never feel as though you are trapped inside of your own life". These words have never rang so true for some of us lately. There are so many things in this world that makes us all feel this way sometimes. Rather it be at our jobs or in our relationships, there has to be an even balance between all aspects for our own well being. Sure, there are times where we second guess ourselves making us think if it is the right thing, but hell what is the right thing. Is the right thing following our dreams to better ourselves to make us happy? Is it staying put and locked in something that makes us OK or just plain miserable?  And what about those that we leave behind along the way, are we supposed to stop caring about how they may be effected by any of our changes? Life's decisions are really hard especially when you have a heart and feelings. Or for those who have always put others before themselves. I believe that everything happens for a reason and for those who truly say they love you wouldn't expect you to do anything less. Sure there are going to be tears from change but no one has the right to hold anyone back nor would they expect anything but the best for our futures. So go on and be happy, make those changes that will benefit you. It's not selfish to want to take care of yourself in the way you see fit. It's sort of like cleaning out your closet of things you no longer wear, or getting rid of all those childhood things that defined us as children. All it takes is one step at a time, and for some of us who have been stuck for awhile, it's that giant leap forward that makes us better.